It makes them recoil. The goal of hate is to make us terrified. When they tell us they are going to hurt us for simply being who we are, they are hoping we will just stop being who we are. Instead, we should do the exact opposite.

Think tropical sunsets, laid-back luxury, poolside laughs, beachside frolicking, Olivia entertainment, and a home base you never have to leave (unless you want to). Olivia resorts are all-inclusive playgrounds where everything you need is steps away.

Little Gay Book’s Lesbian, Bi, Trans and Queer Speed Dating events are open to lesbian, bisexual, nonbinary, and genderqueer women. These events are trans-inclusive, and intolerance is not permitted. We welcome participants who are open for new connections within the LGBTQ+ community either romantic or platonic — we offer matchmaking for both romance and friendship!

You should come to our speed-dating events with some idea of the basic characteristics that make someone a compatible partner for you, like age and gender presentation on a spectrum of butch to femme. We recommend keeping an open mind when it comes to dating outside your “type” in other ways — part of the magic of matchmaking is learning how compatible you can be with someone you might not have known to choose for yourself. 

Most of all, bring a positive attitude and a willingness to “say yes” to new experiences! Travel is an adventure, and so is the journey of finding love — with Olivia Travel and Little Gay Book, both can be fun and exhilarating.

Once you’re booked on the Dreams Tulum trip, you’ll receive emails that will invite you to register for the Little Gay Book events. You’ll also have a chance to sign up at the resort with Little Gay Book staff. Once you sign up and answer our questionnaire, Little Gay Book’s innovative technology, honed over the course of Dr. Frankie Bashan’s 20+ years of LGBTQ+ matchmaking, lets you tailor your matchmaking experience to your own needs. You share your preferences — your ideal match’s age, gender presentation, and more — and our expert algorithm matches you with compatible attendees. Whether you’re looking for a new spark without expectations, the love of your life, or platonic connections to enrich your life, our proprietary matchmaking technology can bring exciting new relationships into your time in Tulum and your life beyond it. 

After the speed-dating events are over, you’ll receive contact information for your matches, and can take the lead on the next step with your new connection. Whether with a playfully competitive pickleball match or a sunset shared on the white sand beach, you and your match have plenty of opportunities to grow closer during your time in Tulum.

Don’t miss out on this incredible opportunity to benefit from Little Gay Book’s matchmaking magic in the setting of an incredible Olivia vacation in one of the most beautiful places on earth. 

Spaces are limited. We can’t wait to see you in Tulum!

This week has flown by. And no wonder, because our days are overflowing with beautiful experiences. We begin with sunrise yoga at 5:45 am, followed by diving, snorkeling, stand-up paddleboarding, kayaking, beach time, relaxing spa sessions, starlit dinners, and more. Our group has had close encounters with manta rays, a variety of sharks, sea turtles, octopus, and so many other incredible marine animals. 

The Olivia spirit adds even more beauty to the Maldives' turquoise waters, white sand beaches, and brilliant sunny days. It's been lovely to watch Olivians support, uplift, and befriend each other throughout this experience. We're looking forward to another week of relaxation, community, and adventure.

-Sarah S,  Trip Leader