Little Gay Book’s Lesbian, Bi, Trans and Queer Speed Dating events are open to lesbian, bisexual, nonbinary, and genderqueer women. These events are trans-inclusive, and intolerance is not permitted. We welcome participants who are open for new connections within the LGBTQ+ community either romantic or platonic — we offer matchmaking for both romance and friendship!

You should come to our speed-dating events with some idea of the basic characteristics that make someone a compatible partner for you, like age and gender presentation on a spectrum of butch to femme. We recommend keeping an open mind when it comes to dating outside your “type” in other ways — part of the magic of matchmaking is learning how compatible you can be with someone you might not have known to choose for yourself. 

Most of all, bring a positive attitude and a willingness to “say yes” to new experiences! Travel is an adventure, and so is the journey of finding love — with Olivia Travel and Little Gay Book, both can be fun and exhilarating.

Once you’re booked on the Dreams Tulum trip, you’ll receive emails that will invite you to register for the Little Gay Book events. You’ll also have a chance to sign up at the resort with Little Gay Book staff. Once you sign up and answer our questionnaire, Little Gay Book’s innovative technology, honed over the course of Dr. Frankie Bashan’s 20+ years of LGBTQ+ matchmaking, lets you tailor your matchmaking experience to your own needs. You share your preferences — your ideal match’s age, gender presentation, and more — and our expert algorithm matches you with compatible attendees. Whether you’re looking for a new spark without expectations, the love of your life, or platonic connections to enrich your life, our proprietary matchmaking technology can bring exciting new relationships into your time in Tulum and your life beyond it. 

After the speed-dating events are over, you’ll receive contact information for your matches, and can take the lead on the next step with your new connection. Whether with a playfully competitive pickleball match or a sunset shared on the white sand beach, you and your match have plenty of opportunities to grow closer during your time in Tulum.

Don’t miss out on this incredible opportunity to benefit from Little Gay Book’s matchmaking magic in the setting of an incredible Olivia vacation in one of the most beautiful places on earth. 

Spaces are limited. We can’t wait to see you in Tulum!

Coral reefs aren’t just stunning to look at; they play a crucial role in keeping our planet healthy. They provide food and shelter for marine species, protect coastlines from storms, and support the livelihoods of millions of people. But with over 50% of reefs lost in the last 30 years, the time to act is now.

Through this partnership, Olivia is:

• Supporting CORAL’s conservation programs with a financial contribution.
• Raising awareness about how small changes can make a big impact.
• Educating our travelers on sustainable tourism practices.

Olivia has always been about community—on land and at sea. We’re so proud to partner with Coral Reef Alliance and take this step toward a more sustainable future. Together, we can help protect the world we love exploring.

Want to learn more? Visit coral.org to explore CORAL’s incredible work, and don’t forget to follow along on social as we share more about this exciting partnership leading up to our cruise!

Let’s make waves for conservation—one adventure at a time.

*Photo Credit: coral.org

This week has flown by. And no wonder, because our days are overflowing with beautiful experiences. We begin with sunrise yoga at 5:45 am, followed by diving, snorkeling, stand-up paddleboarding, kayaking, beach time, relaxing spa sessions, starlit dinners, and more. Our group has had close encounters with manta rays, a variety of sharks, sea turtles, octopus, and so many other incredible marine animals. 

The Olivia spirit adds even more beauty to the Maldives' turquoise waters, white sand beaches, and brilliant sunny days. It's been lovely to watch Olivians support, uplift, and befriend each other throughout this experience. We're looking forward to another week of relaxation, community, and adventure.

-Sarah S,  Trip Leader

Entertainment is included - On almost all Olivia trips, the entertainment is a part of the package. Olivia brings singers, comedians, activity leaders, DJs,  emcees, all of it. You don’t have to buy tickets to a concert or to a comedy show or to a yoga class to expand your horizons, these types of activities are led by Olivia staff and included when you travel with Olivia*.

This is your vacation - Olivia Travel has a variety of activities and personalized programs in place on their large trips that allow you to create your ideal vacation, whatever your vacation goals are, from relaxing to adventuring and from group travel to going solo. Looking to meet people your own age, or Olivians who came out later in life like you? Did you serve in the military?Are you an Olivian of color looking to connect with friends and allies? Are you interested in meeting people from your local area? Are you looking for the a quiet yoga class or will you gravitate to the booming sounds of pool games? Olivia features everything from activities to meetups to speed-dating/friending to hometown pride events that give you a forum to interact with your community in ways that are unique to you!

There are so many misconceptions out there about organized LBGTQ+ and lesbian vacations. Don’t let these circulated and recirculated myths keep you from enjoying the time of your life! Which of these have you heard?

1) There is no better value. Truly. When you break down the price of your vacation per night, it’s amazing what you get. It’s just one all-inclusive price for your cruise cabin or resort room, all your meals and snacks, plus all your entertainment —from comedians to singers to speakers to workshops to activities like pool games, karaoke, and “game shows.” It’s all in there and it’s all for a great price.  

2) There’s the interest-free Olivia six-month payment plan or the ability to extend your payments up to 24 months with Uplift. So, you don’t have to pay all at once and you can budget ahead. Going on vacation is all about relaxing: knowing you have all sorts of payment options allows you to do exactly that.  

3) Because your travels don’t have to start and end with your cruise. Leaving from San Diego? Arrive a couple days early, or extend your post-cruise stay and visit the Gaslamp quarter and other local landmarks. Round-trip from San Juan? Get your history on with visits to Castillo San Felipe del Morro and Castillo de San Cristóbal. Indulge in retail therapy with a visit to Ole Puerto Rico for a bespoke hat or to HANDMADE Puerto Rico for custom espadrilles. 

4) Olivia cruises always feature the best ports of call. Our Caribbean stops offer zip lining across the jungle, up-close-and-personal visits with sea-life friends like seals and dolphins, sunset cruises, fishing excursions, horseback riding, and opportunities to explore iconic historic sites.  

Our Alaskan cruises offer glacier viewing, wildlife photography opportunities, and dog sledding. Our European trips offer the chance to wander the museums, visit historic architectural, and to dine on local delights. Our resort and adventure trips are always to the very best spots with breathtaking vistas and fun things to do.  

5) The season is the reason when it comes to number five. No matter the season, Olivia strives to plan trips that allow you to enjoy the best in weather and wildlife, from bears in Alaska in the early fall to dolphins in Mexico during their migratory season. Of course, when it comes to an Olivia trip, there’s never a time when having the vacation of a lifetime is out of season.  

6) The chance to take all the best pictures. Whatever the itinerary, you can count on enjoying the most incredible views from spectacular sunsets to infinite horizons to ancient ruins to glorious beaches. Olivia offers sites to see that you won’t soon forget. 

7) No matter which ship we charter, or which resort we take over, we always make sure it’s just right. From ships large and small, to resorts grand and intimate, you don’t have to be Goldilocks to enjoy the perfect fit. 

8) For those thinking about traveling solo. Do it! You won’t be alone. Around 20% of guests on each Olivia cruise and trip are single and we always make sure to offer plenty of activities to break the ice. You’ll never be at a loss for things to do or people to do them with.  

9) There is always incredible entertainment and programming on every Olivia trip. That means outstanding lineups of entertainers, speakers, and events. And, of course, Olivia always offers the best DJs to keep the party going. 

And, last but certainly not least, number ten. You guessed it...

10) One of the best reasons to travel on Olivia is that we always charter the entire ship or take over the entire resort. This means you can always feel free to be yourself. And there is no better feeling than being you and, of course, being beautiful together.